Thursday, October 5, 2017

Balance

As a parent of two sons in their twenties, I wish I had the patience and understanding with them that I had as an educator working with other people’s children. Relatively early in my professional life, I learned a few things that I honestly tried hard to carry over into my parenting (albeit not as consistently as my sons would’ve preferred). I came to recognize that I did not need to know every single detail of all aspects of their daily existence. I did need to be aware of the big picture and judicious in my interventions. I needed to not react to everything. I needed to allow them to learn and grow. The resulting household strife, fueled by a sense that they did not have my trust, only served to disrupt constructive engagement and escalate tensions all around.  Even worse, I had become the parent who I heard about from their pediatrician: the parent who runs to the doctor carrying his child while pleading to find out why the child does not walk. 

If my boys were in high school today, I would’ve been the one ensuring their backpacks were organized for the next day and checking the PowerSchool portal so often that my device would lock up.  If I had texting capabilities then, I would’ve set their iPhones ablaze. My boys – and my wife – would’ve arranged to have my access blocked. Conscious or not, the pressure I put on them raised their own stress levels (particularly in my older son, who was always hard on himself).

By the time each was well into his high school years and I acted toward them in a more balanced manner (for which my wife takes full credit), I realized that there were quick returns from serving as a sounding board and a helper on their terms, and not directing their lives. Not only did this allow for them to make mistakes and develop their own decision-making and problem-solving skills, but ‘balanced parenting’ (as my wife, the parenting expert, termed it) actually kept the house quieter and provided each of my boys with a more equal hand in our interactions.  As a professional I consulted pointed out, it also helped them to be more confident in their own abilities because they could see the results of their own thought processes and choice of action.   

As an educator working with your children, everything I read and hear about the proliferation of information technologies is that they enhance and can elevate the complementary processes of instruction and learning.  They also give rise to and exacerbate the overwhelming of our senses with oceans of data that are often conflicting or contradictory. NCHS takes as its most important mission, preparing all students for the world in which this is a given,. We strive to help them recognize that the information with which they are bombarded must be weighed and assessed for its validity before it is internalized. In seeing our students not solely as ‘learners’ but as whole individuals, we strive equally to help each acquire the habits of mind and emotional intelligence that will support the development of confidence, critical thought and resiliency. These ideals shape the lens through which we, as educators, establish and revise curriculum, plan and manage instruction and learn about and practice the most effective approaches for promoting learning.

Essential to this is the partnership between the NCHS staff and parents or guardians of each of our students or, as I often like to describe us, “the adults around the child.”  Whatever students face, it is incumbent upon us to not ‘carrying them around and wonder why they don’t walk.’ We need to keep them grounded and accepting of the personal value that comes from dealing with the travails and challenges that life brings. However, our inclination is to eliminate these challenges and stay informed ahead of them enough to be able to monitor and guide. Nothing in my personal and professional experience nor in research recommends this as ‘best practice.’

Only recently, I became aware of the ability to receive alerts from the PowerSchool portal every time a grade is entered and to be immediately notified if a grade average in a course is within a certain range. In both cases, students and parents can be prompted to check the portal, perhaps, continuously if not, as least, hourly or several times a day.  As an educator concerned, as all of us are, with the stress and pressures our students face, I cannot see what constructive purpose these types of options provide and am asking all students and their parents to consider the real value of such ‘over-monitoring.’  Since assignments considered in the calculation of a quarter or semester grade are not weighted in real time; each isolated grade can only ever serve as indicators of mastery or a need for improvement on that particular assignment or assessment. If a pattern is noticed, there is a benefit to giving them a ‘heads-up’ and guiding students toward their own realizations. This is what research notes as the structure for meaningful learning, for students to begin to see their own ‘big picture.’

My sons turned out fine and, by multiple measures, successful and prepared for what life will bring. I have an enjoyable relationship with each of them and appreciate the balance that now defines our family dynamic. But, in retrospect, I wish I hadn’t made it so hard for them at points along the way.



Thursday, March 23, 2017

What We Should be Doing More Of ... or, What Makes This Job Fun

A junior, Thomas Freiberg, approached me a while ago with an idea: can we have a ‘hack-a-thon’ at the school? As an administrator, I bristled at the word ‘hack’ and my first impulse was to kindly discourage him. Thomas explained what such an event entailed and we decided to give it a try. Over the course of several months, we put the event together – arranging spaces in the building, ordering kits and reaching out to presenters from various technology fields – and began to see who’d be interested.

This morning, fourteen NCHS students are working in teams on coding or robotics projects that they will present at the end of the day. Some are in the AP Computer Science Principles class, some are members of the VEX Robotics Club, some are just computer hobbyists.



As an old social studies teacher, I have no idea what they’re saying to each other or about which they’re making inside jokes. What I do recognize is creativity, collaborative problem-solving and mutual respect for the skills and insights each team member brings to the project. When the reach a point where they could say they’re finished, one makes a suggestion on how their project could be even better. I’ve been getting questions like, “Can I go get a [certain tool I don’t know]?” and “Can we add sensors so that they robots can [do something I don’t honestly understand]?” I’ve had CTE Chair and technology educator, Jim Zambarano, on speed-dial all morning.  Other staff members and students will be filtering in and out all day, seeing what their peers are doing; witnessing what can be done with an idea.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Even an old administrator can learn new tricks ...

Every year, I am required to develop a professional learning goal for myself. This year, since I am working with the freshman class and this is where we are piloting our BYOD initiative, I thought it wise to start thinking seriously about HOW teachers can enhance and personalize instruction for all students and HOW student learning can be elevated.

To ensure that I am headed in the right direction, that I can actually support and guide teachers, I have enlisted the services of Techxpert Spencer Reeves, who will serve this year as my mentor.

I hope he has patience ...

I'll keeo you posted as things "progress"

Thursday, July 30, 2015

It's the end of July ... I'm back from my vacation ... at least, the Yankees are doing well!

Monday, July 13, 2015

My First Blog Post

This is my inaugural posting ... I've finally joined the blogosphere!



The summer here at NCHS is uncomfortably quiet ... statistics, reports, organizing for the new school year. I am looking forward to working with two classes this coming year: the seniors and the freshmen. I have truly enjoyed working with the Class of 2016 over these past three years, getting to know many of them personally and marveling at their achievements and accomplishments. With the Class of 2019, this will be an exciting and challenging year and I hope to be there for each of you.

In the meantime, everyone should have fun this summer, read something solely for pleasure and RELAX. See you soon